Spiritual Divorce: Divorce as a Catalyst for an Extraordinary Life Paperback – October 24, 2006

A good read and helpful for me at this especially difficult time ending a 31 year marriage. While we break the physical connection in the process of the divorce action, the higher spiritual connection often has a greater hold for you. ' Hold' is the appropriate word in my case, my never ending hope and loyalty, my never give up attitude and way to responsible self, they held me like an invisible hook and kept me in a horrid situation for far too many long, lonely and painful years. Even though I knew I wasn't safe being there, just a waiting game of constant watching for his moods to switch and then the explosions started. This 'connection', the hooks of what kept me there has to be addressed. I won't say it is easy in any way. Only when all ties are cut and you're free on all levels including spiritually, only then will you finally break the chains, move on and start to heal. The longer divorce takes, the pain will remain. You need all the support you can get going through this. This book is one of those supports. I certainly needed to read this book, it was a highly challenging time and took over 2 years to finish, sadly my ex chose a destructive path to cause the most harm. To all the strong, courageous woman that live with this, or have left similar situations, I commend you. I congratulate you. Find your joy and live a lighter and safe life!

I am not going through a divorce, but like everyone else, I have had relationships that didn't work out the way I hoped. A few friends are going through tough times so I read this book to have an understanding of what they are going through and WOW, was I in for a surprise! This book had so much to say to me on ways I can work on myself so that I can have a better marriage and better relationships with kids, friends, co-workers! If both partners care enough early on to follow her wisdom and guidelines, I think you could prevent divorce with this book.I could not put this book down. As a Christian, I may be talking to a different God than Debbie is, but that didn't slow me down one bit--she has a way with words that cuts through murky, repetetive thoughts and forces you to take responsibility for whatever your situation is in life. I I have read a LOT of self help books, but this one says things in a very practical, non-judgmental way. I can now look at my friends going through divorce, point this book out to them and be happy that there is a bright light at the end of their tunnel. And I believed that before, but I didn't know how to help them believe it until I found this book. Many thanks to you, Debbie.

Debbie Ford has accomplished a task that is seemingly impossible to do. She has used her own experiences, and written a book (Spiritual Divorce) that provides the reader a light during a very dark time, gently, logically and with great insight, guiding you from a place of despair to a world of wondrous and unlimited opportunity. I am not a religious person and, given the books title, I almost did not read this book that was presented to me as a gift during a very troubling time in my life. I am so thankful that I did read it. I have often referred to this book as the map that saved me by showing me the way out of a deep and dark place that I, and so many others, had found myself in. What I would say to anyone chancing to read this, is that as devastating as divorce can be to your life, and the many lives around you, it can also be used to set down the first block of a strong foundation to a wonderful and bright future. Let Spiritual Divorce: Divorce as a Catalyst for an Extraordinary Life show you how to do this, and use this book as a map to find your way.

Not a bad book, but not what I was looking for right now. I was looking for something to make me feel good and get ready to start my new life. This book has you look back at all of your faults and all the things you did wrong and how you contributed to the failure of your marriage. Not a bad idea, but right now I'm just trying to get through my divorce and move on, not delve into a major undertaking like this.

wow! the information and suggestions in this book really have helped me to mature and reach beyond myself. ford writes in an excellent style that inspires you to greater things. i was very impressed with this work. for many guys, her approach and vocabulary might be seen as a pie-in-the-sky approach. while probably true, if you can look beyond that to the message that she offers, it is well worth it. this book is very affordably priced and is worth the purchase, new or used.

This book is amazing and I scoured the shelves of bookstores and online to find something that really spoke to me. I continue to recommend it and it is a loving way to move on, in spite of pain and heart ache.The exercises may seem boring or trite, yet they help to see how we make the choices that we make and how to empower ourselves to feel our feelings, speak up and be respectful all at the same time. If you are looking toward a spiritual path this is your answer!!!Divorce is not something I planned on, nor something I would ever want anyone to go through and yet this was one of those "life savers" or "life preservers" that helped me to move forward and do it with dignity. Taking responsibility for my actions, even when I didn't want to. This book is profound and should be sold everywhere.Thank you, Debbie, that you could share your intimate experience and I could be so touched by it and relate to everything you expressed. I am forever grateful! My friends who have gone through divorce have also expressed their thanks for lending it to them!

Some of the thoughts in this book are really insightful, other “tips” might not apply to everyone, but all in all a good effort from the author and certainly this is a positive tool to help anyone going through a tough time with their divorce..

For anyone who is going through a relationship breakdown, this book is a must! To truly reap the benefits - DO THE HEALING ACTION STEPS! Be honest with yourself and take the time to complete each section. It’s time to peel back the layers and go within to heal. Easy to read and I love how each chapter has call to action steps to assist with the healing process.

Life changing. Debbie Ford does an outstanding job in this book and it's made a HUGE impact in my life. As a result, my ex and I have managed to make peace with the past and come out as great friends co-parenting our son. I'm a better woman and mother as a result. Thank you Debbie!

Da ich das Buch in Deutsch bereits kenne, wollte ich es einem englisch sprechenden Freund schenken. Die gelieferte Ausgabe ist im Original und in einwandfreiem Zustand bei mir angekommen.

It was difficult to find a new copy of this book. It should be printed again. It's a great book to deal with divorce (or other difficult periods - cfr. dark night of the soul) or support people dealing with divorce. But I think it's for people who are already spiritually oriented. Two other books that could help in the same prices are: "The Vortex" by J&E Hicks and "Feeding Your Demons" by A. Tsultrim. Thanks Debbie !!!