Getting to I Do Paperback – 1 Feb. 1995

I started reading this book when I already started dating my partner at the time and honestly this is a great a book which will help you to identify your energy (feminine/masculine), will give you a great insight how to date someone intentionally, deal with conflict, communicate and will share some great scenarios which are insightful and definitely relatable. Recommend it to all women who truly want to get married and get to I do.

I’m not much of a reader but omg this book is great! Wish I could meet the author one day.The book itself came new as advertised and the whole service was great. Thank you!

Don't be put off by the title, this is for anyone who wants to break their relationship patterns and find their soulmate. This is one of the most insightful relationship books out there. The authors use a psychological model to explain where many men and women go wrong in their relationships. I have recommended this book to dozens of my clients and after reading it they have all had big "Ah Ha" moments as to why their relationships haven't worked.You may at first find the theory a bit controversial and acting feminine as a why to attract men may sound a bit old-fashioned, but if you follow the advice, you will attract a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.

This book is interesting and it gave me some good insights into male-female relationships and behaviours. However, don't base you whole relational world view on it as it's not a silver bullet, nothing is. No book will replace consisten self development and self-awarness.

This is a must buy, if you are seeking to better understand relationships. It was an eye opener for me! I couldn't recommend this book or any of Dr. Pat Allen's works enough. In fact I have had to purchase a couple more just to give out to friends who were eager to delve into her principles. I would also thoroughly recommend listening to her monthly podcast.

I got to "I Do" within a few weeks of buying this book!It's well worth it. It shows just how differently men and women think but also how we can resolve that just by a few changes in behaviour and attitude. Well worth it.

This book is amazing! A classic! Contains so much vital information on every page. Can't put it down.

the book was a bit dirty on the cover and well used