Codependence The Dance of Wounded Souls: A Cosmic Perspective of Codependence and the Human Condition

I found this book to be much more of the author's personal philosophies and New Age thinking than an actual psychology-based self-help book. He spent most of the book stating what he believed in abstract and, at times, pretentious positivity rather than actually addressing the mechanisms of codependence in relationships and presenting exercises or proposing behavioral changes. Most of the book felt like I was listening to him blither on and on about his own viewpoints rather than presenting educational information. I also noticed that a lot of his viewpoint is heavily influenced by 12-Step but that he never really outlined what 12-Step was about or explained the why behind why it would be beneficial for the reader. This book lacked the depth and substance I was looking for.In summary, this book is fine if you're looking for a book in the vein of New Age spiritualism, but if you're looking for substantive educational self-help content on codependence, I'd recommend skipping this one in favor of "Loving Your Partner without Losing Yourself" by Martha Beveridge.

This book was recommended to me by my daughter, another pilgrim on the search for oneself. Until a few years ago, reading books about the origins of who I've become was too hard, I felt unable to be re-jigged ~ but books such as this one are making sense to me now.The concepts of co-dependency thriving within me feels real. The power struggle between good and evil, that crazy person who can drive like I own the road, berating myself out loud "Who's the bonehead now?" as I bark at a driver who pulls out too slow in front of me... that sense that comes up when my immediate reactions are out-of-character and inexplicable. The child driving the bus and that bus and driver are me.I got a lot out of this book. It was shortish, it was enlightening and easy to read. Since crackeding open the spine, my girl and I have spent hours exploring the concepts contained within and we both are in agreement that the message comes back over and over again, there are shadows inside of us that suddenly make sense. We both have benefitted enormously by its presence.

Very interesting perspective on codependency. I think a foundation of the 12 step recovery process is helpful in understanding the authors world view. Believing we are Spirits having a Human experience also helps in embracing his concepts. I found this book to be intriguing, informative and useful. Everyone has an addiction, everyone is wounded and we live in a codependent culture. This book helps explain our human condition and provides meaningful strategies to navigate through our journey.

The author's concepts are good, but get sometimes so subjective it is hard to figure out application. Like a new computer with no instructions.I used some of this on a difficult person, and it helped them in their messed up logic and application. In this arena application is everything.His key of self responsibility is perfect and others should use that as it is the only functional way to go through these personal problem.

If you have Experience a Spiritual Awakening (usually Through life in pain) this will book will give you some of the answers you are looking for, will make it easy to know that you are not alone and to proceed with your healing journey so you can heal others after healing yourself, creating the "monkey" story effect that is in the end of the book. enjoy

I abhorred the use of such profanity referring to the Loving God of this universe. It has no place in trying to heal people and if Is all we’ve got left to turn to you, The future is hopeless. Jesus Christ is the answer to these problems. This book is full of demonic suggestions. Throw the book away and get a Jimmy Swaggart study Bible which is a KIng James version with notes to explain oddities of 1611 Pre-Elizabethean English.

To remember our own power by not giving it away. Taking responsibility for our own actions, pain, joy, tears, frustration etc., will lead us to take our power back. Love yourself first and nothing expect others to make you happy. You are responsible for it.

Too many times people comment on here as though they were experts themselves when reading this book. I am not one of those experts. This book put into words many of the feelings I was having but was unable to identify or verbalize. This book explores and proposes a very different, understanding and peaceful perspective on life and living and on problem solving while living. It was a very good book to read and re-read to help me adjust my own perspective on my life.

A fantastic book that I am sure I will read over and over again.Written in a relaxed, reader-friendly style, but someone who has been there and who truly understands. Not your average self help book about codependence, which tell you what you must achieve and why you must achieve it, but with no more clue of how to do so than fly in the air.

For me it was a no nonsense book written in clear and unambiguous English. I found the last chapter: "The Cosmic Perspective" a little hard to follow and accept but that is not me implying it is not possible. I want to try and keep an open mind. For me it was a good read and I took a lot of positives away from it.

Although this book takes dedication to get through it, it's one of the best self help books I've ever read. The understanding of why we behave/interact with others the way we do, is a real eye opener for me.

Beautiful to read. I can wait to read the other books.

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