Revenge

What it should read is "what makes the Narcissist Tick" it is clearly what is behind the Narcissists Mask! An excellent read! I have studied this subject of the Masters of what is now in psychology as "the B Cluster Personality disorders" long before it was vogue in search for answers haveing been married to one (a high end Elite White Colar Psychopath) under a spell of a true Magnus! But the real answers lie not in reading the modern psychologist or survivors perspectives. Sgter reading dozens over the last 15 years. The answers come from the sources themself of which Tutor is. Right out of the horses mouth, or should I say Stallions mouth! This is a true classic in understanding their "kind" and how they differ, their tactics and insidious approaches, their goals and intentions all layer out for you, In their quest to suck the life force right out of you and why! Here you will finally get the answer to all those “WHY’s! A must read! 90 percent of my book is underscored and I found it very hard to put it down! I wrote side notes in every blank space as hurried memories of torment and frustrations surrounding all those wasted years stolen came back to the surface for resolution in a dence a purging surrounding all the unfinished business was very therapeutic because I finally got answers to many of the “WHY’s”. I hated hearing but was greatful for his candid and shocking words. It left me wondering what else would I now find in his other books which I now own. Start here as this gives you the over all templates of what their differences are and how they manipulate you as you recognize every move and scinafio he scripts. You will see your Phantom here again behind every mask they wear.An excellent resource and one I will share! . Ballsy and brilliant as his chilling truths hit to your wounded core like no one else I have read. He will help you crawl inside the mind of your abuser and give you back your power because now you finally see him. The Emporor finally has no Clothes...Sick, perverted and seductive all there. Get it and finally see what has been so skillfully hiden. More than an eye opener..,REDEMPTION! This is a book for us Survivors not the Victims, big difference! Thumbs up!

So, you want revenge? You have discovered that the person who turned your life upside down, and made it a living hell is a narcissist! You have been doing everything you can to salvage the relationship, because of course, it is your fault, if only you gave them more attention, wasn't so controlling, trusted them more, etc. Then you find exactly what you have been dealing with. You are angry at being duped, misused, discarded, for letting yourself be abused in so many ways.You want revenge!!But, nearly anything you do, "fuels" the narcissists, and with his mindset that the ends justify any means, you have a formidable foe against you. He is way ahead in the dirty tricks, and has no conscience, will give no quarter.But if you insist it is revenge you want, Revenge: How To Beat The Narcissist, is your blueprint for carrying that out. HG Tudor defines the eight pillars you must topple, and how to do so for each school of narcissist, what defenses you must have in place before you even start, what to do, and what not to do, as you carry out your plans. There is even a recommendation of an alternative. No Contact, a passive revenge on the narcissist, should you decide you will waste not a minute more of your time and emotions on the narcissist.But if your ire is up, if revenge is the only way you can give yourself release, this is the only successful route to getting it. The narcissist does not think like you, or experience the world the way you do. If you are to be successful in your revenge, you better know where to hit to make it hurt, and HG Tudor, as a narcissist himself, can point out the chinks in the armor that you just would not otherwise see.Revenge is a dish best eaten cold, and it applies to the narcissist in spades! Pack away your emotions, show no reaction, here is your battle plan. Be sure this is what you want, do not ever waiver in your resolve, and you will have your revenge!

Thank you for the wonderful e-book. I was entertained the entire way through. I don't usually buy e-books, but this was a great way to make an exception. I loved how you explained to keep it legal, be patient and make sure you are ready before finding justice and protecting the world from an evil narc who destroys everyone. The only thing I can add is to make all revenge moves completely covert so that the narc does not get negative fuel. The narc does not deserve any attention. H G is an excellent writer with a vivid imagination and gift for entertaining with words. He is very visual with his descriptions. I love his blog and am a follower who looks forward to each entry. I hope he researches and dedicates an entire e-book to the topic of narcissism and autism as that's an extremely challenging issue, but much different than dealing with a NPD/sociopath. By the way, LOVED the scene of the golf course when his EX tried to confront him. As empaths (I hate to use the word victims), we need to realize the narc is laughing at us when we make a public scene or confront him. NO CONTACT is the only way and then COVERT tactics that are legal. LOVE LOVE LOVE your work, HG. And, as always, thank you infinity times infinity.

Wow this REALLY is FEEDING this particular narcissist as another reviewer so rightly pointed out. His unqualified message is simply to avoid the narcissist, ignore the narcissist or do some really really silly and petty "revenge" tactics which would simply inconvenience and annoy anyone. Yes I've been gullible to buy this 49p worth of scant information for £5.49 but will not be buying any more. I URGE YOU NOT TO, EVEN OUT OF CURIOSITY. Well done NG for duping me! I have no doubt his many other books will cover the same scant, silly padded out messages. I have no doubt all his books combined will barely add up to one worth a read. This narcissist must really must think we all stupid enough to buy one of his book let alone more.

I keep asking myself why an elite great narc (or whatever his "title" is) would impart prime information to us mere mortals, in order to help us to topple him and his kind from their apparent lofty perch. I always read Tudor's books with a certain amount of scepticism and cynicism - perhaps because I have dealt with a narc and have learned not to believe a word they say. That said, there was so much of this book that rang true because I have witnessed how a narc behaves, that I am inclined to believe the advice given here. If you are able to employ some or all of the tactics and you get results, it will have been worth the price of the book. There are a good number of ideas throughout the book, and some of them even made me smile because the circumstances were very similar to my own experiences. HOWEVER, on the down side, there are sooooo many typos in the Kindle version - at least one per page - sometimes one per paragraph - it really should be proof read and amended. Sometimes it reads as though it is written by someone who's first language is not English. Im sure HG would see this as a criticism of his omnipotence and status as an author.

After discovering I had been involved with a narcissist, I took to educating myself via HG Tudor, His work did more for me in helping me recover and finding a way forward in 12 weeks than a therapy.. For awhile you become addicted to the work of HG Tudor, but don't worry once you heal you can move on from him too but be thankful that his teachings have put you on the right path to success.. My mind is no longer confused and I am no longer hurting I am just relieved that I learnt what I was dealing with, and then it made it all the more easier to just move on, and not give the abuser anymore space or time - In-fact I now look at the abuser with pity and cringe at the very thought of him. I have no inclination to get closure or answers - and that my people is the best revenge you can ever get on a Narc, they need you to seek answers from them and to interact for fuel.. The book is funny and entertaining I am not sure I have a need to carry out any revenge as the time goes on, because it means the character would be given space in my head. When you understand a Narc will never experience contentment that is the only revenge you can ever possibly need to move on with your life.. I am not jealous of anyone he maybe with I pity them but also hope they give him enough fuel to occupy him to keep him away from me..

I enjoyed this book. It is well constructed and informative, giving you information on what you must target and why. The final ‘revenge’ will be hard to achieve if you follow the recommendations literally but there are certainly some great ideas to at least wound and severely annoy the narcissist in your life.

I used to be the sort of person who was merely satisfied when a bad relationship ended. After a series of them, I concluded that dumping someone isn't sufficient as a deterrent for attempting to control or mistreat me. This book has been a significant factor in changing all that. PS, don't worry: it doesn't advise that you do anything unethical or illegal. It sure was nice to watch the narcissist in my life squirm and feel as powerless as I was for a change! It has definitely helped me move on.